Recently I came across a great article from keepconnected.searchinstitute.org about challenging growth in your children. It is reprinted, in part, below:
As humans, “challenging ourselves and each other is a part of human nature.” We take risks and compete. We like to be physically and mentally stimulated. Challenging growth focuses on the ways people seek to bring out the best in each other. We challenge growth in four ways:
- Expect each other’s best. Expect each other to live up to their potential.
- Push each other to go further.
- Hold each other accountable. Insist that everyone takes responsibility for their actions.
- Reflect on failures. Help each other learn from mistakes and setbacks.
Challenging growth is most effective when the relationship is built on a foundation of care. It also works best when people are being challenged to get better based on their own goals—not just what someone else wants them to do.
Why does challenging growth matter?
Without some challenge in their lives, kids get bored. The same is true of adults. When kids have challenging tasks that fit their abilities, they tend to rise to the challenge. They find the activities are more enjoyable and interesting than when the tasks are not challenging.
Challenging young people to grow—through relationship with their parents—can influence many parts of young people’s lives. Here’s a sample:
- Overall adjustment and resilience
- Ability to stay focused on achieving their long-term goals
- Doing well in school
- Civic participation
- Athletic and sports achievement
- Nutrition and health habits
To read the rest of the article, go to https://keepconnected.searchinstitute.org/strengthen-your-family-relationships/challenge-growth/
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